Viewing Listserv MessageGood Kids/The Challenge of Sports & Real Priorities/Bringing Us All Together is a ChallengeSent: Friday, February 6th 2009Dear Parents, The second semester has started off well. Of course, there were the usual concerns that many of you have about your child not getting a zero period or not having a particular class but that happens. Unfortunately, it is nearly impossible to give everyone what they want especially when they don't turn in their registration forms. What is more important is for you understand that we do our best. I get letters or emails from parents stating that their child is a good child with good grades and cannot understand why their child cannot get that specific class or that 0 period. Please note that we have a lot of good kids. I currently have 63 seniors with grade point averages of 4.0 or above and 215 seniors with a 3.5 or above. I have 186 seniors who do not have one single entry in their discipline files for any reason. There are 55 juniors with a 4.0 or above and 209 with a 3.5 or above and 233 perfectly behaved angels with no discipline entries. I only mention these two grade levels because they are the grades that usually have the most requests. My point is that we have many, many good kids running around our school. Please understand that we do the best we can to accommodate the children and it is not personal if they cannot get what they desire. For the record, almost 60% of the senior class takes at least on class after lunch so please don't let your senior con you into believing that they are the only senior at school after lunch. I also want to take an opportunity to thank all of you who responded to my last email. I did read each and every one. I was particularly happy to read the ones that students sent me. I must say they were very well written and quite insightful. Those kids are getting a great education from somewhere. :-) Since the end of the last football game, I have spent a great amount of time reviewing the program and its coaching staff. I have spoken with parents, students, coaches and other colleagues on the matter. In attempting to meet this head on what I have discovered is that there are broader problems that everyone knows exist but find difficult to address. These problems include parents moving children from school to school for athletic reasons which mainly revolve around playing time or "exposure." This leads to another issue which is the obsession to get the "scholarship". Yesterday's signing of national letters of intent did not make it any easier. I am sure as a middle school parent you look to see who has the most recruits to possibly see if that may be a good place for your future athlete. I recently read an article about how colleges are now offering scholarships to 7th & 8th graders. http://www.miamiherald.com/news/southflorida/story/884969.html These kids have not even taken an SAT or even received a semester report card. What a smack in the face to all of those 4.0 students I referred to you above. If you read the article I attached, USC is offering one of them to a student not yet in high school. I am just going to stop there because my blood is beginning to boil. The reason that it is boiling is because in my humble opinion, it is all about money. A successful college program brings in lots of money to the university. A successful college player could make a lot of money. A family can suddenly become wealthy or achieve fame and huge status within their community. As a result, the pressure on high school coaches and school administrators to have competitive winning programs becomes intensified. Place that pressure in an affluent area such as Orange County or my old district in Manhattan Beach and the expectations are magnified a hundred fold. This is where your principal has conflict. My vision of high school has always been one where the kids from our neighborhood grow up together from elementary to high school. They play on the local pop warner and little league teams together. They come to high school and play on the school team. They develop long lasting relationships playing sports and then go off to college where maybe a lucky few will get a full ride scholarship, not one in which the college just pays for your books. However, I know that that sort of thinking is outdated and I go back to being old fashioned again. You are probably thinking I need to go back to the 60's. To think that we could be really good some years and then have some down years is not in step with today's reality. (Look at my poor Yankees. :-)) I look for head coaches who can be positive role models, who care and love working with kids and have great knowledge of the sport. As parents you expressed to me at the last Coffeehouse Chat that you wanted your children to learn teamwork, be disciplined, to develop a strong work ethic and learn to work hard. You made it clear to me that day that it was not about the won-lost record but how your children were being treated that is most important. You want them to have a good experience. We are in agreement on that. There is a lot of energy that we are expending on who should be the head coach of our football team. In a time when I am trying to prioritize what is important in the classrooms of this teaching institution, I find myself mired in an extracurricular activity that although a positive source of entertainment, is not vital in the pursuit of our children's academic needs. Here we are in the midst of one of our country's worse economic crisis and school and district administrators are being forced to spend a huge amount of time on the many opinions on high school football. On Monday night when I meet with our football parents we need to discuss how to improve. Let's talk about how we can improve the strength of the players. Let's talk about how we can improve their diets and eating habits. Let's talk about how we can attract additional quality coaching staff. Let's talk about how we can better incorporate discipline into our players. Let's talk about how to improve the academic performance of our players. We need to get positive. That's the first step. We need our school and our community to get aboard and support our program. We can all be a part of the solution. Remember, this is about our children not about you or me. We need to work together to help provide them with what we want them to have. During the Christmas break, I met with a group of dads to discuss the football program. I had invited a couple of dads that had expressed such displeasure with what occurred during the season. They decided to help make a change and get involved in the program. That is what we need, which is for all of Aliso Viejo and Laguna Niguel to get involved. We must build from scratch. It is oh so easy to run to some place that we think is so much better. It is not always greener on the other side. We want to think it is, but it isn't always. Let's place a stake in our program. Let's stop talking and let's get working. Our kids are working so let's join them. We can turn it around, but we must do it together. I would like nothing more than to see our school's program be the model of kids who grew up together and being successful in high school together without the constant influx of transfers. Oh, I forgot, that's old fashioned thinking. Your friendly neighborhood principal, Charles Salter csalter@capousd.org This communication and any documents, files, or previous e-mail messages attached to it constitute an electronic communication within the scope of the Electronic Communication Privacy Act, 18 USCA 2510. This communication may contain non-public, confidential, or legally privileged information intended for the sole use of the designated recipient(s). The unlawful interception, use or disclosure of such information is strictly prohibited under 18 USCA 2511 and any applicable laws.
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